Looking back we have now invented a whole back story for "Carl",the guy on the left in the red t-shirt,oblivious to our wedding party!
Or maybe "Carl" is a long lost acquaintance wondering why you guys forgot about him and left him out of the wedding. (He just has a really good poker face about it.)
The most elaborate groomsmen invite ever: stop-motion video & custom website with personal video invites. Amazing. It's by the guy who "stopped time" (http://wedinator.icanhascheezburger.com/2010/07/21/sheer-awesome-video-marriage-proposal-frozen-in-time/)